Showing posts with label black excellence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label black excellence. Show all posts

September 22, 2015

Black Girl Magic: Emmys Edition


I've always loves award shows because I think it's so inspiring to see people being awarded for their work. I love seeing people so proud of themselves and their peers. It's even more special when there a beautiful women who look like me. Beautiful shades of gorgeous brown skin, amazing women making history. So many women supporting each other. Looking beautiful on the red carpet and basking in excellence! May all the Black Girl Magic from that night continue to inspire us.

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The hugs felt around the world

 Viola Davis and her incredible acceptance speech



“'In my mind, I see a line. And over that line, I see green fields and lovely flowers and beautiful white women with their arms stretched out to me, over that line. But I can’t see to get there no how. I can’t seem to get over that line.’
That was Harriet Tubman in the 1800s. And let me tell you something: The only thing that separates women of color from anyone else is opportunity. You cannot win an Emmy for roles that are simply not there. So here’s to all the writers, the awesome people that are Ben Sherwood, Paul Lee, Peter Nowalk, Shonda Rhimes, people who have redefined what it means to be beautiful, to be sexy, to be a leading woman, to be black. And to the Taraji P. Hensons, the Kerry Washingtons, the Halle Berrys, the Nicole Beharies, the Meagan Goods, to Gabrielle Union: Thank you for taking us over that line. Thank you to the Television Academy. Thank you.”






Regina King's win and speech



Uzo Aduba's win and speech




And of course, the red carpet





 I hope that we continue to see more and more black girl magic. At award shows, in television and movies, in books, and anywhere and everywhere else!

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"The only thing that separates women of color from anyone else is opportunity.
-Viola Davis



Quote of the day:

 

February 25, 2015

Be Inspired: Phenomenal Woman




This is so beautiful. I hope it brightens your day.

Find out more about the Because of Them We Can Campaign

It's phenomenal.

February 2, 2015

Black Excellence: Awards Season

The people who know me best know that I LOVE award shows and award show season. I think there is something so special about seeing people so proud of themselves and their peers. I enjoy seeing people on the red carpet that look like me. It makes me incredibly happy to hear how happy they are to be living out their dreams. That is what black excellence looks like























“…thanks for this award, especially on behalf of my daughters, who I want to know, with this nose, this height, this color skin, these arms.. look what you can accomplish.” 
-Chandra Wilson



December 31, 2014

Books I Read: Things I Should Have Told My Daughter


Things I Should Have Told My Daughter by Pearl Cleage

I looked into reading this book after seeing Pearl Cleage on Melissa Harris-Perry's show. My favorite thing about this book is that these are her actual journal entries from a decade of her life. It really made me want to journal more. I really need to work on writing more. At least once a week. I did enjoy following her life and I feel like this is a book I can go back and read during different stages of my own life.

Here are some quotes that I loved:
  • "I will claim myself for myself."
  • "I told a student today: You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. Praise yourself as much as you fuss at yourself.' And I could have been talking to myself. And I was. And I will."

I think this is a great read for women, activist women, women of color--particularly black women, and writers. I really enjoyed it.  

Books I Read: Sister Citizen


Sister Citizen by Melissa V. Harris-Perry

I read this book earlier in the year and I absolutely loved it. I had so many thoughts on it that I never even took the time to sit down and write about it. I wrote all over the pages and  I have stickers over this whole book. I don't even know where to begin.

My favorite aspects of this book:
  • The connections made between American classics like Their Eyes Were Watching God or For Colored Girls and the issues that Black women in America face daily. 
  • I loved the use of poetry, quotes, and imagery. I wasn't expecting that in a political book.
  • I really enjoyed the quotes from various women from different places. I think it's so important for people's voices and experiences to be shared. 
  • The range of topics the book covered. It raises discussion of religion, strength, beauty, disasters, and so much more. It reaffirms the importance of looking at every aspect of life. We have to be aware of how race, gender, class, past experience, religion, etc all intersect to shape our lives. All of those pieces to our individual puzzles mean something. They set us apart from one another and we have to recognize those differences.
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This is what the book looked like after I was done:


I'll select a few of the quotes I highlighted:
  • "It is so easy to be hopeful in the day time when you can see the things you wish on. But it is was night,  it stayed night. Night was striding across nothingness with the whole round world i his hands." -Zora Neale Hurston
  • "...this book makes the claim that the internal, psychological, emotional, and personal experiences of black women are inherently political. They are political because black women in America have always had to wrestle with derogatory assumptions about their character and identity. These assumptions shape the social world that black women must accommodate or resist in an effort to preserve their authentic selves and to secure recognition as citizens. This is less a book about what black women do to become first-class citizens than one about how they feel while they are in that struggle."
  • "If Black women were free, it would mean that everyone else would have to be free since our freedom would necessitate the destruction of all the systems of oppression." - Combahee River Collective
  •  "Sometimes black women can conquer negative myths, sometimes they are defeated, and sometimes they choose not to fight. Whatever the outcome, we can better understand sisters as citizens when we appreciate the crooked room in which they struggle to stand upright."
  • "...shamed individuals see themselves as particularly worthy of punishment. Shame eats away at self-esteem and makes every social role more difficult."
  • "If African-American women are led to believe that strength is an essential, inborn characteristic--a racial rule--then showing weakness or asking for help becomes traitorous."

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I think everyone should read this book. 

August 3, 2014

On The Come Up by Hannah Weyer


"It came to her just before sleep, an idea crystallizing in the dark--how maybe the size of your world ain't what matter, whether it expand or shrink up or expand again. Hurdles to jump. You jump. Erase the lines, draw new ones. Chart a course and follow." (p290)

I recently finished reading On The Come Up by Hannah Weyer. I found out about this book when going through the Our Song tag on tumblr. This book is based on the life of Anna Simpson, one of the girls who stars in the film. Because I loved the movie, I had to make sure I found this book and I am so glad I did. This was a real page turner. I couldn't get enough of it. I really appreciated how honest and real this story came across. I also think that this is the first story I've read in a long time that really takes place in NYC and I especially loved that because I'm living in NYC again. I think that made it feel more real to me. I also loved any part of the book that was set while they were filming the movie. It felt like I was going behind the scenes of one of my favorite movies!

I loved reading this book early every morning during my commute to work. It was so easy to get lost in this book. I'm so glad I found it!

I recommend this for readers who:
  • like to read biograhpies
  • enjoy oral histories
  • like stories that take place in urban settings
  • want to read a story that takes place in NYC/Far Rockaway
  • want to read a story about aspiring actresses/singers
  • enjoy "coming of age" stories
  • are interested in reading about teenage pregnancy/parenthood
  • liked the movie "Our Song"
  • are interested in reading LGBT stories
  • love books you van get lost in
Because it is one of my favorite movies, here's the trailer for Our Song.



July 13, 2014

The Other Side of Paradise


I recently finished reading "The Other Side of Paradise" by Staceyann Chin. I really enjoyed it. There were parts that made me laugh. There were parts that made me cry and gave me goosebumps. It had all the things I loved. The Other Side of Paradise, a memoir, was honest and left me wanting more. I've always been a big fan of Staceyann Chin. She has a wonderful way with words. You can always feel her passion and energy in her words. This book is no different.

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Quotes I loved:

"It tickles me to think that from my very first breath, everyone expected me to stop breathing. Against the odds, I surprised everybody. And I must admit that in some of the moments of my life so far, no one has been more taken aback by my own breath than me." (p.13)


"What you don't know is older than you! Sometimes your eyes fail you--sometimes what you see is not what is there." (p.44)


"...a man who only want to bring you down on you back is a man who will want to bring you down in life." (p.51)


"Read everything. The more knowledge you have, the less a man can use you for poppy-show" (p.51)


"Suddenly it dawns on me that, though leaving is hard, this is something I want to do. The choice to go is my decision. For the first time in my life my leaving is something I want to be happening to me. (p.271)


"I go from place to place spouting the gospel of courage and survival. I encourage victims to take hold of destiny and chart it for themselves." (p.274)





I recommend this book for people who:
  • enjoy reading memoirs
  • enjoy diversity in books
  • want to read about queer people of color/women of color
  • love Staceyann Chin
  • want to read a story that takes place in Jamaica
  • love real and honest readings
  • want to read about real people and real imperfect families
  • enjoy poetry and spoken word
  • enjoy reading stories written by black women

May 29, 2014

Dear Dr. Maya Angelou

Rest in Peace Maya Angelou.

Maya Angelou was a precious gift to us all. She was truly a phenomenal woman and an inspiration to all. I find comfort in knowing that her words will live on forever. Her voice, like her words, were magical. I delighted in listening to her speak, watching her interviews and speeches, listening to her recitals, and using that as motivation to work harder and to do better.

In 11th grade I kept her words and her pictures on my English binder to remind myself that I was beautiful, unique, and phenomenal. Her words reminded me that even though I felt sad and lonely,  I was definitely worth something and I deserved to feel good about myself. In those moments during my freshman year of college when I felt defeated and alone, her words on my room wall were a daily reminder that I was going to make it through this and that I had the power in my to stand strong and rise against what I thought were my biggest challenges. When I graduated, her words decorated my cap and my graduation announcements. He words have helped me as I learned to accept and love myself. Her words allowed me to be okay with celebrating me and I know that her words and her legacy will continue to nourish my soul for the rest of my life.





 Dear Dr. Maya Angelou,

I'm so thankful for your words. Thank you for inspiring me and being a constant source of motivation in my life. Your precious words have helped me get to where I am today. You have helped me learn to love and appreciate myself. I'm glad that your words will live forever. I will continue to live by your words. To rise against my fears and stand strong. Thank you for sharing your spirit, your stories, your smile, your knowledge, and your words.  May you always be celebrated and may you rest in peace.


February 28, 2014

Culture: The Wire


The Wire: 2002 - 2008




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Goodnight Moon:

Goodnight moon
Goodnight stars
Goodnight po-pos
Goodnight fiends
Goodnight hoppers
Goodnight hustlers
Goodnight scammers
Goodnight to everybody
Goodnight to one and all.


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Black Excellence Month: Day 28

Gabrielle Union
Actress
1972 - 


"We give a lot of others significance in our lives even when they don't deserve it. It doesn't matter if they're family or if you've known them forever. If they're not good for you, they've got to go."
-Gabrielle Union



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February 27, 2014

Black Excellence Month: Day 27

Whoopi Goldberg
Actress  Comedian  Political Activist  Singer
1953 - 


"It's being willing to walk away that gives you strength and power - if you're willing to accept the consequences of doing what you want to do."
-Whoopi Goldberg



"Well, when I was nine years old, Star Trek came on, I looked at it and I went screaming through the house, 'Come here, mum, everybody, come quick, come quick, there's a black lady on television and she ain't no maid!' I knew right then and there I could be anything I wanted to be.”
-Whoopi Goldberg

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Recommended Reading:
  • Sugar Plum Ballerinas (series) by Whoopi Goldberg
  • Is it Just Me? Or is it Nuts Out There by Whoopi Goldberg
  • Alice by Whoopi Goldberg

February 26, 2014

Black Excellence Month: Day 26

Alfre Woodard
Actress
1952 - 

“Everybody has a part of her body that she doesn’t like, but I've stopped complaining about mine because I don’t want to critique nature's handiwork...My job is simply to allow the light to shine out of the masterpiece.” 
-Alfre Woodard



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Well Suited Wednesday

Michael B. Jordan
Actor
1987 - 


"I want to do everything. I'm a producer at heart. Eventually, when I can produce the way I want to, my acting's going to help fuel that. And not just vehicles for myself - I'm a member of this film society, and I want to contribute. If you're in the industry, you can't just take from it; you have to deposit something back to keep it going for the next generation."
-Michael B. Jordan


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February 25, 2014

Black Excellence Month: Day 25

Shonda Rhimes
Screenwriter  Director  Producer
1970 - 


"I’m a black woman every day, and I’m not confused about that. I’m not worried about that. I don’t need to have a discussion with you about how I feel as a black woman, because I don’t feel disempowered as a black woman.”
-Shonda Rhimes




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February 24, 2014

Black Men Monday

Ossie Davis
Actor  Playwright  Director  Social Activist
1917 - 2005


“I find, in being black, a thing of beauty: a joy; a strength; a secret cup of gladness.”
-Ossie Davis



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  • With Ossie and Ruby by Ossie Davis and Ruby Dee
  • Just Like Martin by Ossie Davis
  • Escape to Freedom by Ossie Davis

Black Excellence Month: Day 24

Octavia E. Butler
Writer
1947 - 2006

"You don't start out writing good stuff. You start out writing crap and thinking it's good stuff, and then gradually you get better at it. That's why I say one of the most valuable traits is persistence. It's just so easy to give up!"
-Octavia Butler


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Black Culture: A Different World


A Different World: 1987 - 1993


Denise, Dwayne, Whitley
Ron, Kim, Jaleesa, Freddie
Mr. Gaines, Col. Taylor, Walter
Lettie, Stevie
Lena, Gina, Charmaine
Dorian, Terrance 

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My Favorite Episodes:
  • War of the Words
  • Rudy and the Snow Queen
  • Gift of the Magi
  • Mr. Hillman
  • If Only For One Night
  • Those Who Can't...Tutor
  • Three Girls Three
  • Radio Free Hillman
  • It Happened One Night
  • It's Greek to Me
  • No Means No
  • There's No Place Like Home
  •  Strangers on a Plane
  • To Have and Have Not
  • Answered Prayers
  • The Power of the Pen
  • Pride and Prejudice
  • Ms. Understanding
  • If I Should Die Before I Wake
  • Do You Take This Woman
  • Mammy Dearest
  • Cats in the Cradle
  • Save the Best for Last
  • Honeymoon in L.A. parts 1 and 2
  • Homie, Don't Ya Know Me
  • A Rock, A River, a Lena
  • Love Taps