The mind of a student.

My bumble bee :)

2012-01-28T23:47:00.002-05:00

"Aerodynamically, the bumble bee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumble bee doesn't know it so it goes on flying anyway."

I've been wanting to get this tattoo forever! The quote above is one of my favorites. I just think it has so much meaning. What's to stop me from achieving my goals and following my dreams. Yes there will be obstacles but I can't even see them yet so I won't let them get me down. I'll just keep flying. I was born with wings to soar. Same goes for you! Stay Beautiful.

Monday

2012-01-23T21:43:00.002-05:00

I had a long Monday. I'm so tired but you have to start the week sometime! I hope you have a beautiful night! :) <3

Long Days...

2012-01-21T23:49:00.001-05:00

After a long but great day of volunteering, I just need to relax. So I think I'll just rest my feet, drink some tea, and listen to a few beautiful songs. Like this one:

Rise and feel Phenomenal

2012-01-20T22:55:00.002-05:00

Listen to the words. Feel empowered by their strength and beauty.
Phenomenal Woman
Maya Angelou

Mockingjay

2012-01-20T20:57:00.004-05:00

“What I need is the dandelion in the spring. The bright yellow that means rebirth instead of destruction. The promise that life can go on, no matter how bad our losses. That it can be good again”

I just finished reading a book called Mockingjay. It's the last book in a the Hunger Games series. Read these books! They are amazing. I feel a bit empty now that I've finished them all but I was so into them that I was neglecting my studies and I'm aiming for straight A's this semester so that was no good. However, if you have the time, I recommend you read these books. What I like is that they reflect passion and determination but nothing is portrayed as perfect because that's the truth of life. It can be hard and also beautiful but it's never "perfect."

If you're reading this, I want you to remember that you are alive and you are beautiful.

On a rainy day....

2012-01-18T20:41:00.001-05:00

This is still true...

And Still I Rise

2012-01-18T13:17:00.001-05:00

This is very beautiful and empowering. Sit back and feel the power of the words. Have a beautiful day. Sending all the positive energy and love your way.

Goodnight Wish

2012-01-17T21:12:00.000-05:00

Love can conquer

2012-01-16T21:41:00.002-05:00

Love is louder than injustice, prejudice, hate, and ignorance. Love and passion can conquer inequality if we're willing to fight the fight. It's necessary to stand up for what you believe in. It's important that we remember that we are all different but we are all human. We all deserve to be loved and respect by the people who surround us. We're all sharing this planet and there are a lot of people here and no room for hate or intolerance.

Never stop fighting for equality. We all deserve rights. Make sure you remember the people who have and still are fighting for your rights. Don't be afraid to join them. Love is louder than oppression and inequality. Never stop fighting. Activism is beautiful.

Remember

2012-01-16T20:42:00.002-05:00

Love is louder than societal pressures. You are beautiful and nothing can change that.

Settling

2012-01-15T22:44:00.003-05:00

I feel so bad that I've missed so many days. I haven't been spreading as much love as I would have liked to because I settling in to the new semester. I think I'm all settled in now though. I survived the first week mentally and emotionally but not financially but that's the way the cookie crumbles.

I'm happy to be in the place that I am though. It's an honor to be able to sit in a classroom at a university and be able to learn about what interests me. Not everyone is that lucky and if I had been born in a different time period, I might not have had this opportunity. For that reason, I'm so thankful for the people who have fought for freedom and equality and I take it upon myself to understand the importance of that and to continue fighting for equality.

I did some community service yesterday. It was wonderful. We were filing paperwork for an organization in Tampa that provides food services for local daycare centers. Not only did we have a great time giving back, we also had the opportunity to build relationships with people in the Tampa community. They said that we can come back whenever to volunteer, read to children, or even shadow the workers there. They've provided us with great opportunities that can help us greater succeed in life. Community service is always a phenomenal experience.

I'm hoping to have a great week and I hope you have a great week too.

Happy Friday

2012-01-06T22:59:00.002-05:00

Sunflowers are my favorite. Well, it's a race between sunflowers and tulips but at the moment sunflowers are winning.

People always say how beautiful flowers are when they bloom. People rarely pay attention to flowers as they're growing and blooming but really, the whole process is beautiful. They're beautiful from the moment their seed is planted in the ground and they never stop being beautiful. The same goes for you. You've always been beautiful and you will always be beautiful. Remember that.

Thursday night and everything is fine

2012-01-05T22:53:00.003-05:00

I have been sick all day and my bed was my best friend. It wasn't a bad day though. I think everyone needs a day to just bond with their bed and perhaps a blanket or two.

Day 4 of 366

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page 3 of 366

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You are enough.
I hope your year is getting off to a good start.
Don't forget to love yourself because you are the best person you know. No one can know or love you like you do.
I hope you smiled today.

So sleepy

2012-01-02T23:32:00.003-05:00

I'm back home from vacation and I am so sleepy. I thought vacation was supposed to leave me feeling rested?

Stay beautiful.

Welcome to 2012!

2012-01-01T15:59:00.002-05:00

Sources of inspiration: 2011

2011-12-31T20:41:00.002-05:00

Well, some of them

Born This Way by Lady Gaga

Not Alone by Darren Criss

Fuckin Perfect by P!nk

Harry Potter!

Demi Lovato

Skyscraper by Demi Lovato

Darren Criss

Dianna Agron

My fellow feminists

The love of demoracy

seeing people fight for what they believe in

Self-love and body love campaigns

Movements like SlutWalk and Walk a Mile in Her Shoes

people who are dedicated to helping others recover and heal

happy people

people standing up for themselves

Jordin Sparks

Maya Angelou

the poem Still I Rise

Beautiful Flower by India Arie

The Help (novel)

Tales of the City (novel)

Looking for Alaska by John Green

Winnie the Pooh

A Thousand Splendid Suns (novel)

Neil Patrick Harris

Pretty/Unpretty by Dianna Agron and Lea Michele

Jesse Tyler Ferguson

Quote Blogs

Christmas

Winter

This isn't a complete list but it's accurate to the things and people that I found inspiration in.

My year in 2011

2011-12-31T16:54:00.006-05:00

I feel like this has been a really good year for me. This year, I've learned to love myself in a way I never have before. I've never been happier. I've never loved myself more. I've learned that acceptance is just what I needed to find love and happiness in my life.

I've definitely had some battles to get through and I think I've survived quite nicely. I think my heart is healing quite wonderfully.

My year started off a little rocky but it's made me stronger.

My spring semester didn't go to well but I survived

I started cutting again earlier this year

I got into a few fights and had some hurdles in a few relationships

I had a few family problems that were hard to get through

I survived and I'm stronger because I know that these situations don't hold me back from happiness now. Life goes on. This year, especially from summer up until now, I've really learned a lot about myself. I have begun the process of finding and loving myself. It's taken a long time to love me but I now know for sure that I love me some me. Happy points this year:

I stopped cutting some time in mid-April. I don't see my self going down that road again anytime soon.

I made some great new friendships

My Fall 2011 semester went quite well

I got to go home to NYC this holiday season.

I got to see some people who I hadn't seen in years and it was wonderful!

I met a lot of great people this year and I'm thankful for them

I've stumbled on a lot of great inspiration this year and I think it's what really kept me strong at times when I needed it.

I'm a junior now and that's really exciting

There have been more but it's hard to put everything into words and on to lists. I'm looking forward to what the new year has to bring. I'll learn and grow from what ever life throws my way. It's nice to reflect. I hope you've had a great year. Be safe. Here's to surviving 2012!!

Last Day of the Year

2011-12-31T13:49:00.004-05:00

I missed a few days because of vacation. It's the last day of the year now. I hope you've had a wonderful year. If you're reading this right now, remember that you've made it and you're beautiful.

I have wishes for you.

I wish you a happy new year

I wish that you remember that you're beautiful

I wish you strength to make it through any obstacles that may come your way

I wish that you remember to love yourself and your body.

I wish you good health

I wish that your mind stay free from thoughts of suicide, self-injury, and anything else that will harm your body.

I wish you happiness and positivity

I wish that the world can see your beautiful smile.

I wish your life be free of body shaming, body hate, self hate, and just hate in general

I wish you remember that you're bigger than what you're going through

You will make it. Keep your head up and stay beautiful.

reasons to smile

2011-12-27T23:23:00.002-05:00

family

I met my new baby cousin today. He's 6 weeks old and the cutest thing ever. He's so precious!

I just enjoyed a good cup of tea

vacation is great. I really needed a break from school work to spend time with my family. Relaxing is great

I'm seeing family that I haven't seen in over a year and I missed them so much. It's wonderful.

I love the weather up here in New York. 80 degrees in the winter can be great but I prefer a cold Christmas

I can hear the kids playing games and I'm happy that they're enjoying time with their family too

I'm watching the Blind Side and that movie makes me feel things. Feeling are good.

Why did you smile today?

Holiday Hangover?

2011-12-26T15:31:00.001-05:00

I hope you're holidays are going well!
Stay strong!

Holiday Help

2011-12-25T01:31:00.003-05:00

Help for the holidays:

Don't listen to those family members who only go on about how you've "let yourself go" or tell you "how big you are now" or that "you need to eat because you're too thin" etc. It's your body and it's none of their business. All sizes are beautiful and fat is not an insult anyway. Remember that you're beautiful, always. Some people are beautiful and fat. Some people are beautiful and skinny. No big deal. The holidays are no place for body policing.
Ignore the implications that your career choice/college major is not going to help you in the future. It's your life and because it's your life, it's wonderful. Unless they can see into the future, it's a moo point.
When people bug you about settling down and dating, remember they have no business in your love life.
Enjoy all the food you want to enjoy
Be thankful
Smile
Hug
Fill conversations with love and good things. There is no need for hate during the holidays
Remember that you are strong and you are special. Don't let hurtful words get you down. You're important. You are enough
Stay strong
Stay beautiful
Know that there are places to vent.

got any more tips? I would love to hear them.

Happy Holidays!

2011-12-24T23:33:00.005-05:00

Twas the night before Christmas and Kiyanna was blogging
Everyone was awake and the house was quite noisy
I read books to the young ones
They lost interest quickly
Now I am sleepy
I'm also not a poet
-Kiyanna Shanay

I have something more important to tell you than that "poem."

Vacation!

2011-12-24T03:57:00.000-05:00

LOVE

2011-12-22T21:29:00.003-05:00

"There's something ironic about thinking someone is a terrible person, and then spending all your time talking shit about them."
-Tyler Oakley

Tyler Oakley knows what he's talking about. I want to address cyber bullying. I think that people have this idea that it's okay to be mean and hurtful because you're on some social networking website. It's really not. Social networks allow your voice to be heard by many. Even though this is the internet, people are forming their impressions of you from what you say. There is no benefit from hurting or attacking someone online who has done nothing to you. Just because you say it over the internet doesn't mean it isn't still hurtful. When you talk like this to people, remember that you're talking to an actual person that you don't even really know. People have feelings and just because you aren't face to face, doesn't mean your words have no impact on them. Words can hurt.

To victims,
People just can't see what a precious and beautiful person they're hurting. They just can't see how special you are. You don't deserve the hate. You're much better than that. You are enough. You are strong. Fuck the haters.

Busy bee missed a post :(

2011-12-22T20:46:00.003-05:00

I was so busy last night that I couldn't post so I hope this makes up for it. You are beautiful.

Tuesday

2011-12-20T22:10:00.002-05:00

Happy Monday

2011-12-19T22:28:00.002-05:00

I hope you have a beautiful week.
This is still relevant. http://eepurl.com/hBc_U

You're not alone

2011-12-18T23:34:00.004-05:00

Where did the weekend go? I've been spending so much time looking at older posts and I saw and older one about hope. I want to do more like those. What gives you hope or what does hope look like to you?

Saturday Night.

2011-12-17T23:21:00.002-05:00

Hello,
I'm in the middle of reading an amazing book1 I didn't want to get up because I couldn't tear myself away. Luckily Jimmy Fallon is on SNL and I couldn't miss that so I'm taking a little break from my book. I was just crying a little bit while reading which is pretty ironic since the question for my book challenge today was "Name a book that has made you cry." I named four.

I love reading! If you know any good titles, please send them my way!

I love you and you are beautiful.

Friday

2011-12-16T21:36:00.003-05:00

It's Friday. We made it through the week. I hope you had a beautiful week.

I've had an interesting week. Interesting in a good way. I've been trying to send as much love to people as possible. I see some one who I used to be in a lot of the people I talk to. I know that it gets better and I hope that they see it too.

I want you to know that your life matters. Hold on to hope because hope is real. Better days are coming and you deserve the love that's out there for you.

Have a beautiful weekend.

love love love

2011-12-15T23:12:00.003-05:00

Currently sending people all the love I can. Need some love?

You are worth so much. You're not worthless, you never were, and you never will be. Sometimes things are hard but they'll make you stronger and you'll get past it. You're going to make it. Remember that you're special and you always will be. Someone sees the light shine in you like no one else can. Someone believes in you always and loves you unconditionally.

smile.

2011-12-14T22:06:00.002-05:00

I had a good day. I hope you did too.
I was looking back at older posts and I want to share some things.
Flashback of hope

hey

2011-12-13T22:57:00.001-05:00

Sending you all the love I can.
I hope you had a great day.
:)

Eliminate ALL the Hate!!!

2011-12-12T22:10:00.006-05:00

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."

-Ralph Waldo Emerson

I see people take two steps forward and then 4 steps back. It confuses me so much. I see so many people who begin to fight for equality and then in the middle of it all, they take time out to push people down. I really don't see how you can promote equality and hate at the same time.

If you've been the victim of hate because you were being yourself, I want you to know that there is nothing wrong with being you. I know I say it all the time but it's true. "There is nothing more badass than being who you are." Shame on them for trying to bring you down. Maybe they're still learning how to spread the love. Sometimes it can be hard to spread love before you begin to live life with an open mind so if you receive hate for your race, sexuality, gender, class, or anything else, just know that it's not your fault. It's never your fault so please don't let it get to you. Hopefully one day they will actually learn how to spread the love with open minds and full acceptance of other people in the world.

To the people who are spreading the hate, why do you do it? I've always wondered why anyone would want to put others down and I just can't seem to figure it out. I've been a victim to this before and obviously it's not a good feeling. I know I can't tell you how to live your life but I want you to know that words can hurt and it isn't fair to bully or send hate to someone for who they are. I hope you have a lot of love in your life and that you have a beautiful week. Spread love to all.

feelings.

2011-12-11T22:06:00.004-05:00

I found this in a magical place and I thought that it would most definitely fit here. I know that we've all had our struggles and some of us are still struggling. Our struggles make us stronger. They make us stronger. They give us stories. What ever you are struggling through right now, I want you to know that you are strong. You'll make it through and you'll gain from it. You'll gain strength and knowledge. Know that you're bigger than what you're facing and you can tackle it.

Saturday night and everything's fine

2011-12-10T23:16:00.003-05:00

You are okay and the world is a beautiful place....if you care to see it that way. Open your eyes and see the beauty of the world around you. Enjoy life. It's wonderful. I love you.

Happy Friday :)

2011-12-09T23:35:00.003-05:00

I'm really getting into a wintery holidays state of mind. I watched 6 Christmas/Holiday movies today with my brother and sister. I loved it! My favorites from tonight were "Frosty the Snowman" and "Yes, Virginia" featuring Neil Patrick Harris. I think that they're real good heart happy movies and today, they were my reasons to smile.

great realizations

2011-12-08T21:31:00.002-05:00

Spread love not hate. We already have enough hate in the world. Can you see that it's not helping us any?

Hump Day Quotes

2011-12-07T21:52:00.002-05:00

“After winter comes the summer. After night comes the dawn. And after every storm, there comes clear, open skies.”

Hi.

2011-12-06T19:40:00.003-05:00

“You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.”

-Maya Angelou

Happy Monday!

2011-12-05T22:57:00.002-05:00

I hope you've had a beautiful start to the week. I sent out my first subscriber email. Did you get one? You can read the message here. It's not too late to subscribe to receive the emails too.

Don't forget to love yourself. Have a great week!

You're not alone.

2011-12-04T22:56:00.004-05:00

My life is a whole lot brighter after watching the live stream of the red carpet at Trevor Live. The theme of the night is "You're not alone." I love it so much! There were so many sources of inspiration. Inspirational quotes, videos, people...it was so beautiful. I just loving seeing so many people who are getting together to end bullying. I'm going to post some of the inspirational stuff here.

Since the theme of the night is "You're not alone" and because this is something very near to my heart, I would like to let you know that You aren't alone. You are bigger and you are stronger than the rough times that you're going through. Your heart will heal beautiful. You deserve the love and happiness of this world. It is your birthright. Don't give up. Stay Strong. You're going to make it okay?

kiyannaloves@yahoo.com

Reasons to smile: December 2nd-3rd

2011-12-03T22:00:00.002-05:00

I was so busy on Friday that I could not post a message. I decided to combine yesterday's and today's message. I hope that's okay. I hope you've had a couple of days. If you're reading this right now, smile because you're making it. We made it through the week!

For me, this week started off really hectic. I wasn't sure if I would be able to find time to breathe. I did, though, and I made it. I also made A's on all of my exams. I'm still waiting for a grade on my paper but I'm really proud of the work I did. I'm glad I was able to finish it. I spent some good time with some good friends this week. I went to my university's winter wonderland celebration and made the cutest penguin at the 'Stuff A Plush' station. Now I'm with my family and it's winter break and I needed the time off!

In case you forgot, here is something you need to know:

I hope it's okay that I have one picture for two days. At the very bottom of this, you can see link that says "sign up for our newsletter" I would love it if you would subscribe to emails from 'The Mind of a Student' I want to send out messages of hope, love, encouragement, and inspiration. If you're interested, I would love to send you some love!

Sign up for our free newsletter!

Happy December

2011-12-01T23:40:00.003-05:00

Reasons to Smile today!:

I stayed up all night and finally finished my paper!
I got 100% on my stats exam!
I took the best nap ever after I got back from all my classes.
I am done with this semester! It's been a really good one

I hope you had a great start to your December. I had a small obstacle to overcome today but I know my battles and I know what I'm stronger than. I've missed sleep though so tonight I'm probably going to hug my zebra tight and go to sleep. Sweet Dreams. ♥

Goodnight November

2011-11-30T21:56:00.002-05:00

For some reason I forgot to add the date on this one but today is November 30, 2011 and you are beautiful. I'm currently working on a paper and study for my exams tomorrow. Quick reasons to smile though: I just got my grade back for my feminist issues test and I got a 91% which I'm super excited about because I was really nervous about it. Studying definitely paid off! I hope November was good to you. Tomorrow is the start of a new month and in that new month you will still be beautiful and special. The holidays are coming up and they can be stressful and they can be happy. If you have finals coming up in the next few weeks, I wish you the best. Stay Strong and Good Luck. I love you. Goodnight November, you've taught me well. You've made me stronger.

Reasons to smile: November 29, 2011

2011-11-29T19:47:00.003-05:00

These are reasons to smile today:

I had two exams today and I think I did well on both of them
I got some excellent feedback on a paper I wrote about the Zero Tolerance Bullying Policy in schools. I love writing about something I'm passionate about and I would really love to see an end to bullying. We all know how damaging its effects are.
I've fallen in love with a new inspirational song. It's "Perfect" by the powerhouse of inspiration and empowerment that is Pink! Today Kurt and Blaine covered it on glee and it was amazing. I loved it. I find Darren Criss (Blaine) to be a great source of inspiration to me so I just loved hearing him sing it. I listened to that song about 10 times this morning when I should have been studying. It's great!
I need to mention again that I'm halfway through with exams!
I met some amazing people today
I have amazing people in my life
I had a great study break today and I got to catch up with some people I haven't spent time with in a while.
It was a pretty good day.

Remember how beautiful and amazing you are.

Hello.

2011-11-28T22:11:00.002-05:00

I hope this reaches you in good spirits. Today I want you to know that you are special. I want you to remember that you are more than any pain you've every felt and any situation that you've struggled through. You're here now and you're going to make it. Keep your head up and stay strong. You are worth all the beauty in the world and I hope you see it in you.

I'm here to talk if you need me. KiyannaLoves@yahoo.com

I'm a busy bee this week.

2011-11-27T21:52:00.001-05:00

I hope you have a great week. This week is really going to test my strength but I'm confident that I will do well. It'll be okay. When this week is over...winter break! I can relax and be happy. Look forward to the good things!

Sorry I'm late.

2011-11-27T01:49:00.000-05:00

You deserve to be here. You are wonderful. You are stronger than what you're going through. Stay strong.

Happy Black Friday!

2011-11-25T20:01:00.000-05:00

Believe it. It's true.

Happy Thanksgiving!

2011-11-24T16:34:00.003-05:00

If this is a holiday that you celebrate, I hope that you are safe and enjoying it! What are you thankful for? This year, and always, I'm thankful for healing, family, friends, heroes, and for all the beautiful smiles I've witnessed.
It was warm enough today to go out and play with sidewalk chalk so that's just what we did! It was fun!
Don't forget to say thank you to the people who are working hard in this life. If you're reading this, I would like to say thank you for hearing my voice.

Check out one of my previous thank you posts!

Hump Day Parties

2011-11-23T23:12:00.002-05:00

Don't let them get you down.

And I know some people who are going to change the world.

2011-11-22T22:27:00.004-05:00

I believe in people. I think that as humans who share this planet, we need to love and support each other. There are many different countries and languages but beyond all of that, we're one people. We're sharing the world and we can't fill it with hate. Actions speak louder than words. If it's within your reach, why not try to change your world? Why not spread love as much as possible? You never know how much your simple actions of love and support will be appreciated.

We all need support. We all need love. There are so many ways to spread love especially with the power of the internet. You may not understand what someone is going through and you may think you can do anything about a certain situation but it helps to know that someone out there cares. You can be that person that cares. "Be the change you want to see in the world." Don't just ignore a problem when you know it's important. There is always a way to help.

Happy Monday

2011-11-21T22:00:00.002-05:00

I missed my opportunity to post yesterday because I was super busy but it's okay because I was having a good time. Happy Time is Time that's not wasted. Now I have two pictures to post. One from today and one from Sunday. I hope you're weeks is getting off to a great start!
I love you and you are Beautiful.

Pretty pretty picture

2011-11-19T22:28:00.002-05:00

I worked on this today and nearly passed out from smelling the markers. It was fun though and I really love all the colors. I'll definitely be making more of these! Here's is something else that is beautiful.
Now I'm patiently waiting for SNL to come on so I can laugh. Laughter is wonderful!

Reasons to smile: November 18, 2011

2011-11-18T18:11:00.002-05:00

went grocery shopping today and stumbled upon some great deals!
it's Friday, the day i relax and catch up on Modern Family and Grey's Anatomy
I finally got to register into all of the classes I want to take next semester
I slept in this morning.
I met a few friendly people on my shopping adventure. I love friendly smiling faces.
I wore my purple flower today, it's my favorite.
I did three assignments/quizzes last night for my Intro to Sociology class last night so i don't have to work on them this weekend. I got 100% on two of the quizzes and a 90% on the last one So I did a good job.
This Friday marks the end of one of the last full weeks of the semester
Had lunch with a good friend today :)
I'm happy.

Happy Thursday!

2011-11-17T18:12:00.001-05:00

Tomorrow is Friday. We've almost made it through the week!
Here is a fun song. I love it, it's one of my favorites!

Live it up.

2011-11-16T23:18:00.002-05:00

I have a question. If you’re enjoying yourself and doing what you love while someone sits there and spends the entire time making fun of you, who do you think is having more fun?

Probably the person living it up not trying to put people down. Just a theory.

Live life and be happy. Spread happiness.

You are not alone.

2011-11-15T22:03:00.004-05:00

Recently in the news, the story broke of a 10 year old girl who committed suicide by hanging herself in her closet. She was only 10 years old and an honor student. Now she's gone. Like many others, she was bullied in school and it led her to take her own life. She felt alone, left out, and saw no other way out

Now listen to me, I want you to remember that you are not alone. Love is louder than the harsh things they say. Love is louder than hate, prejudice, ignorance, intolerance, and judgement. I'm so sorry for all the voices that are not heard but I will be standing up for you. This needs to stop. We need to stop losing lives like this. Stomp Out Bullying...it is not necessary and it's destroying us. Bullies: STOP IT.

We're stronger than bullying and we need to protect each other and ourselves. Remember please that you are a beautiful person. You are loved. You will make it. I believe in you.

Remember this quote, it's one of my favorites right now, "You are a child of the universe! No less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here."

You are not alone. Listen to the song below. It's one of my favorites. I can listen to it a million times. Remember that you're not alone. Love is louder.

November 14th!

2011-11-14T21:58:00.002-05:00

Some years ago, one of the world's most beautiful women was born. I'm happy to be her daughter as she is beautiful and wonderful. Happy Birthday Mommy!

Long Days!

2011-11-13T19:38:00.003-05:00

Volunteer! I had so much fun volunteering at the football stadium today. Now I'm tired and sore but it was worth it. I love seeing smiling faces and knowing that you've helped out is just a great feeling. If you don't volunteer, find some ways you can. You'll really love it!

Desktop Background

2011-11-12T19:21:00.003-05:00

Think about how many times you look at your desktop background. I change them every once in a while and I always pick something encouraging and uplifting. This is my current background and I love it!

11/11/11

2011-11-11T23:38:00.002-05:00

What did you wish for?

Thursday nights win!

2011-11-10T23:18:00.001-05:00

Happy Hump Day

2011-11-09T19:43:00.003-05:00

I added this other picture of the inspirational Demi Lovato because she is such a great role model. Her message is amazing. It's great to have support from someone who has taken a stand and shared their journey. We are BEAUTIFUL.

always remember.

2011-11-08T21:58:00.001-05:00

It all ends here

2011-11-08T06:25:00.003-05:00

It needs to end. Please watch this video. It broke my heart but at the same time I was so happy for them. They're all so brave and courageous. We need to see a lot more of that. I'm incredibly inspired by how efforts to let others know that it gets better because it does. He does such a great job singing that song. "Born this Way" is such a beautiful song. It's a great song and you should always remember what she's trying to say. You're wonderful the way you are. Born to be Brave. Born to Survive.

Stomp out Bullying!

Felt like a spring day today

2011-11-07T21:14:00.001-05:00

I hope everyone had a beautiful Monday.

Sometimes things get venty.

2011-11-07T00:18:00.003-05:00

Some people spread a lot of hate. I don't really get why they do this. You don't get anything out of spreading hate. What people get from oppressing others? I really don't know and I will never be able to understand it.

I saw some things earlier that had me in a place between extremely pissed off and crying a river. I won't post a link or describe them in anyway to avoid making people feel the same way I did. It was bad. Later on, when I got around to doing some homework, I saw a website about sea turtles.

I love sea turtles. I think that they're inspirational. They are just such beautiful creatures. From birth, the world and all the odds are against them and they keep on going anyway. It's just like bumble-bees. "Aerodynamically, the bumble bee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumble bee doesn't know it so it goes on flying anyway." I just think that's so beautiful.

The fight is worth it and this world where there is some toxicity trying to bring you down but is also a lot of beauty that is here to inspire you and lift your spirits. Try to focus on that as much as possible. Please stay around to see all the beauty in this world. It might surprise you.

Keep on going.

It's Sunday...

2011-11-06T20:52:00.004-05:00

This is the start of a new week. Don't let "so-called Monday Blues" get you down. Tell yourself that you're going to have the perfect week because you are beautiful and you deserve it. I hope you have a fantastic week!

Everything's gonna be okay

2011-11-05T21:57:00.000-04:00

Something tells me you'll be fine. The strength inside of you is gonna shine.♥

Happy Friday!

2011-11-04T19:17:00.003-04:00

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?

Here is a poem for you today. It's only the portion of a poem but who is to say it's not still beautiful?

Inspiration in music.

2011-11-03T16:56:00.002-04:00

Here is a song for you. Beautiful like you. I hope it makes you smile.

It's one of my favorites!

It's a new day.

2011-11-03T16:35:00.001-04:00

Don't let insecurities ruin your mind or you life. Live free and be you. You are wonderful.

Endless message

2011-11-02T20:45:00.003-04:00

So I say this a lot. I say it a lot because I know it's true. I know that it's something we all need to here. I'll keep saying it as long as I can. I look around all the time and I still see the need for it.

You are absolutely beautiful. You're a beautiful soul in a beautiful body. Claim your body and love your body. It's the only one you'll ever have. Respect it and cherish it.

Love yourself. You're special. Be proud of yourself. Tell yourself the truth, that you are beautiful and you make the world a better place just by being in it.

Be you. Love you.

Big smiles tonight

2011-10-27T22:42:00.004-04:00

I had a really big heart happy tonight. I'm part of an organization called A.N.G.E.L.S, Inc. and tonight we went to a place called Hope Lodge.

Hope Lodge is a treatment center for elderly cancer patients. We used out talents and did some performances for them, played bingo, danced, and had pizza and ice cream to top it off. It was so much fun. It was so beautiful seeing them so happy and appreciative of us being there and helping out. There is nothing better I could have done tonight. I love seeing happy and smiling faces. I could tell that they enjoyed our company and now I'm going to sleep with a happy heart and a smile on my face.

I hope you always find a reason to smile!

Happy Love Your Body Day!!

2011-10-19T12:30:00.004-04:00

I hope you're having a Happy Love Your Body Day!

I was so excited about it today. I wore yellow for the occasion to symbol sunshine and happiness. It also shows off my beautiful legs and looks great with my new favorite shoes. It's more than just the clothes though...
What's most important is how great I feel! I love it. I love me. I love my body, my smile, my eyes, my everything. This is the only body I'll ever had and I intend to keep loving it.

I hope you're feeling the love! I hope you love your body too. You are a masterpiece. ♥

Please listen to me.

2011-08-05T20:36:00.003-04:00

The world we live in isn't perfect and you don't have to be either. Don't try to compare yourself or your life to societies standards of beauty or happiness. You won't accomplish anything that way. The best thing you can ever be is yourself and once you accept that, I believe that you can find happiness or at least begin your journey to freedom.

Don't let anyone tell you that you don't deserve love or you don't deserve to call yourself beautiful. You're worth so much more than the hate and the ugliness that society sometimes tries to spread. Don't believe it. You are wonderful.

Harry Potter Experience

2011-07-31T16:48:00.005-04:00

I remember watching Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone for the first time with my mom. She kept rewinding the part when Hagrid knocks down the door and says, "Sorry about that." Everything from that point forward was just amazing to a 9-year-old me. I remember falling in love with all the magic. Platform 93/4, the beautiful train, the chocolate frog, the sorting hat, the great feast, Fluffy...I could go on for ages.

Harry Potter and Goblet of Fire is my favorite movie because that is when I fell in love with Ron Weasley/Rupert Grint but Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone is and always will be my go to happy movie. It's the moment I fell in love with golden trio as they're now called. It's the moment that I understood how special and beautiful and freaking awesome it is to stand up against something bigger than yourself. I understand that more now because I'm older but it was always clear that there was something incredibly special about these movies and about Harry, Ron, and Hermione and Hogwarts.

After seeing Chamber of Secrets, I started reading the books. I started with Prisoner of Azkaban then read the first two and then I read the rest of them in order from Goblet of Fire. I already loved reading but I was never in love with a series like this before. I loved finishing one book and wondering what would happen next. It kept my love of reading alive. I still really love reading. Whenever I get the chance, I read my favorite chapter of the whole series, The Prince's Tale in Deathly Hallows. It never gets old. It never stops being beautiful. It reminds me that people are more than what you see. That is something we forget far too often.

I've learned a lot from the series. I've learned a lot from the books, movies, and characters.

It's okay to stand up for what you believe in
It's okay to fight against something bigger than yourself.
People are different but that's not a reason to hate them.
Love conquers all
Love is there even when you don't realize it.
Magic is love and love is real
We can stand up to what we're afraid of whether it be spiders or hate
Never judge a book by it's cover because people are more than what we see.
When you believe in yourself, you can do a lot of great things.
It's okay to be yourself
It's not good to have too much power and then use it for bad. You never win that way.
I am a Free Elf. We are all Free Elves.

I think the most important thing to me is that it's okay to stand up and fight against something bigger than yourself. If I think back now, that's what pulled me in. These were little kids, only 11, who knew the importance of right from wrong and did everything in their power to make things right and win the good fight. We're stronger than we think and if we have this courage and bravery, who knows what great things we can accomplish for the good fight.

Harry Potter has been really special to me for more than half of my life now. I wouldn't change it at all. It's a part of who I am. I'm a proud Potterhead. Years 1 to 7 are done on paper and on the big screen but it's not over. It will always be a special part of me. I am sad that there are no more movies or books but it will live on. Like J.K. Rowling said, "Hogwarts will always be there to welcome you home." I will never forget the love and the magic. When something is this wonderful, it's legacy lives on forever. Happy Birthday J.K. Rowling. Thank you for everything. "All was well. "

Support your body

2011-07-30T02:50:00.004-04:00

Tip 10: Be your body’s friend and supporter, not its enemy.

Listen to your body. Don't be so hard on yourself. If you're not feeling too comfortable in your body, take a look in the mirror, take a deep breath, relax, and k about what is making you uncomfortable.

For me, I think that I really want to figure out what I'm eating that's been making me sick lately so that I can stop getting sick! I also want to take better care of my hair. I should want my hair to be as healthy as my body. I'm not very nice to my eyes. I could really take better care of them. I sleep in my contacts a lot and that's just not fair to my eyes.

The truth is, we're only given one body. It's the only body we'll ever have. Sure we can do a lot of things to it but is torturing our body really going to make us any happier. If our bodies are happy then we can be happy.

Just for fun.

2011-07-22T04:17:00.002-04:00

How am I feeling today? Ordinary Girl -Hannah Montana

How do my friends see me? Rule- Amerie and Nas

What is my best friend's theme song? See You in the Dark -Honor Society

What is the story of my life? All I Want is You -Barry Louis Polisar

What is the best thing about me? Hey Mickey -The Riplets

What is today going to be like? In The Ayer -Flo Rida

What is in store for this week? Anyone Else But You -Michael Cera and Ellen Page

What song describes my mom? Goodnight and Go- Imogen Heap

To describe my grandparents? But It's Better if You Do- Panic! At the Disco

How is my life going? Slow Jamz- Jamie Foxx, Kanye West, Twista

What song will they play at my funeral? Tired of Being Alone- Al Green

How does the world see me? Just A Dream- Nelly

Will I have a happy life? Diary- Alicia Keys

What do my friends really think of me? Hold On- Jonas Brothers

How can I make myself happy? Splash Waterfalls- Ludacris....

What should I do with my life? I Only See You- Benton Paul

What is some good advice for me? Testify- Common...

How will i be remembered? That's Just the Way We Roll- Jonas Brothers

What is my signature dancing song? When You Look Me In The Eyes- Jonas Brothers (music video)

What is my current theme song? Nothin'- N.O.R.E.

What does everyone else think my current theme song is? Sexy Lady- Young Berg

Our Inspiration #4

2011-07-20T01:47:00.004-04:00

A beautiful girl with a beautiful smile and a beautiful voice. Jordin Sparks is absolutely amazing.

She was also on my get up and go playlist that really made my mornings something beautiful. Her song "Faith" really touches my heart. I cry almost every time I hear it. It's really a song that everyone needs to hear at least once. It's important to know your strength and to know that it's important to believe in yourself and to keep carrying on. As if listening to this every morning didn't already brighten my day, her song "One Step At a Time" occasionally came on during lunch and I think I tweeted about it every time they played it during lunch. Some days, I really needed a mid-day boost like that.

We love her because of her incredible and contagious energy. It's really catchy. When she's performing, you can really tell that she's doing something that she loves what she does.

We love her because of her self-love. It inspires us to love ourselves. She rocks out with confidence because she is beautiful....she helps us remember that we're beautiful also.

Jordin Sparks is amazing.

YOU...

2011-07-17T07:13:00.002-04:00

"You are gorgeous just as you are...as long as you believe it."

I stumbled upon this video while watching Jason Segel interviews on youtube and I just had to share it. When someone is brave enough to love their body despite society's standards we should applaud them and embrace them. We all deserve the right to love our bodies and to have a wonderful and healthy self-esteem. Love you some you.

Poop.

2011-07-10T23:59:00.002-04:00

Even when I feel like I don't belong, I try to be really strong because that's the only way I'll be able to make it out. It really scares me that I'll never find a place where I feel like I completely belong. I have a place in mind but I'll never know for sure if I don't try. I think I will but even if I don't, I know that one day, I'm going to feel comfortable somewhere.
It's not weird that I feel this way. It just encourages me to work harder so that I don't have to feel this way once my life is established. Never never never give up!

Born to be BRAVE.

2011-07-08T14:48:00.004-04:00

This song has become my theme song. I love it so much.
May I remind you that you are amazing. You are beautiful in every possible way and then some. You can accomplish whatever you put your mind to. Don't let anyone tell you different. Believe in yourself because that's how you make it. Love yourself so that others can see the beauty in you. Be yourself because that is the best thing you can ever be.

What to do? Have fun

2011-06-30T22:20:00.001-04:00

Tip 9: Think about all the things you could accomplish with the time and energy you currently spend worrying about your body and appearance. Try one!

read a book
write a novel
buy and rock that outfit that you've had your eye on
treat yourself to a mani/pedi
reread your favorite book
watch a marathon of your favorite show
watch your favorite movie
find a new favorite anything
dance like it's nobody's business because honestly, it's not.
do your favorite workout for FUN
do a mini photo session in your favorite outfits.
play your favorite sport and break all the rules if you want to.
concoct your own delicious recipe and serve it to someone who care about.
NUDES!!!
Teach yourself how to sew/crochet/knit/bake...whatever you want. look at all the how to videos on youtube!
make a youtube video

What would you do?

"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength."

Be thankful for what you can do!

2011-06-30T18:52:00.003-04:00

Tip 8: Count your blessings, not your blemishes.

I think this is a good time to talk about the website Stop Hating Your Body. It's fabulous to love every aspect of your body. I think it's important to think about the things you already love and what they allow you to do. You will find a lot of examples of this on this website. Remind yourself of what you're proud of and what you love. It's a great way to improve your self-esteem.

I'm alive!
I've found ways to express my feelings, although sometimes I don't.....
I have people in my life who love me.
I'm getting an education!
I've learned that it's okay to be myself and love me some me.

Underneath your clothes, you're naked.

2011-06-30T18:16:00.003-04:00

Tip 7: Wear comfortable clothes that you like, that express your personal style, and that feel good to your body.

It's good to be you. You won't feel good if you're not comfortable with what you've got on. It's important that you be yourself and that you're comfortable with who you are. You have to embrace yourself and express yourself.

Rockin' Inspiration

2011-06-23T03:55:00.001-04:00

"if every girl could see her beauty, we would be an army"

That which doesn't define you.

2011-06-23T03:04:00.005-04:00

Tip 6: Don’t let your weight or shape keep you from activities that you enjoy.

Just so you know, no matter what the number on the scale is, it does not define you. You are so much more that a number on the scale. Don't be afraid to do what you love. Don't be afraid to look at the world and say, "this is me and this is where I belong. get used to me." When you do what you enjoy, you're entire body feels it and is happy too.

You want to go swimming? Go ahead and go swimming.
You want to be a boxer? Be the best boxer ever.
You want to do Cartwheels down the street? Be careful and have fun.
You want to play tennis? Be the next Serena Williams.
You want to grow a garden? Go ahead and grow the most beautiful garden and wear a sunhat.
You want to dance? Be the greatest dancer.

Be true to yourself and do what it is that makes you happy and you will feel so good!

"Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."

The Law of Least Effort

2011-06-16T18:59:00.001-04:00

A friend of mine sent this to me, I love it so I'm sharing it.

The Law of Least Effort

By: Dr. Deepak Chopra

The Law of Least Effort: Nature’s intelligence functions with effortless ease, with carefreeness, harmony and love. And when we harness the forces of harmony, joy and love, we create success and good fortune with effortless ease.

I will practice the Law of Least Effort by taking the following steps:

· I will practice acceptance. Today I will accept people, situations, circumstances and events as they occur. I will know that this moment is as it should be, because the whole universe is as it should be. I will not struggle against the whole universe by struggling against this moment. My acceptance is total and complete. I accept things as they are this moment, not as I wish they were.

· Having accepted the things as they are, I will take responsibility for my situation and for all those events I see as problems. I know that taking responsibility means not blaming anyone or anything for my situation, and that includes myself. I also know that every problem is an opportunity in disguise and this alertness to opportunities allows me to take this moment and transform it into a greater benefit.

· Today my awareness will remain established in Defenselessness. I will relinquish the need to defend my point of view. I will feel no need to defend my point of view. I will feel no need to convince or persuade others to accept my point f view. I will remain open to all points of view and not be rigidly attached to any one of them.

Hello Sir or Madam

2011-06-09T00:11:00.002-04:00

Do you want to see something awesome? This will blow your mind. Go look into the mirror. You see that person staring back at you? That person is greatness. If you want to see greatness, go look in the mirror.

Do you remember that time when you were really struggling and you thought you would never make it through and then you looked around and realized that you made it out alive? That moment prepared you for greatness.

Do you remember when you were in that really hard class and you made it through with a passing grade? That moment prepared you for greatness.

Do you remember when you never thought that you could ever love again and then you realized that love never gave up on you? That moment made you stronger.

Each day we become stronger and wiser. We are constantly growing and learning. We make mistakes and we learn from them. We fall down and we get up. Yes, we have setbacks but then we become stronger again. That prepares us for greatness.

Love this so much.

2011-06-07T00:38:00.000-04:00

Be Confident.

2011-06-05T20:40:00.003-04:00

Tip 5:Walk with your head held high, supported by pride and confidence in yourself as a person.

Be confident. Are you feeling the body love yet? Confidence is key. If we don't love ourselves then who will? My theory is that when I believe in myself, I'm always a winner. Believe in yourself and you'll be a winner. Winners can accomplish anything. It's all in you. I can see it from here.

2011-06-02T20:39:00.000-04:00

Your voice deserves to be heard.

Your inspiration :)

2011-06-02T00:49:00.004-04:00

Tip 4: Create a list of people you admire: people who have contributed to your life, your community, or the world. Consider whether their appearance was important to their success and accomplishments.

I feel like this is something that I can go on and on about forever. I like this tip. I think it helps you remember that the people you look up to are humans who love and feel and who have probably struggled with the same issues that you have but have overcome their mountains and touched beautiful lives like your own.

my mommy
my grandmother and my grandfather. ♥
My auntie Jackie
Courtney
my closest friends
my brother and sister
my Family
Demi Lovato
Jonas Brothers
Honor Society
Jordin Sparks
Dr. Martin Luther King jr.
Ghandi
Princess Diana
TWLOHA
Labanya
David
Project Beauty
Operation Beautiful
Maya Angelou
JK Rowling
Any author who has published their story to share with the world.
People who stand up for what they believe in.
Rupert Grint

I could probably go on forever. who inspires you? How do they help you to better appreciate yourself?

Magic is beautiful.

2011-05-30T16:37:00.003-04:00

Tip 3: Become aware of what your body can do each day. Remember it is the instrument of your life, not just an ornament.

There is beauty in magic and our bodies are magical. That means that our bodies are beautiful. Think of the special things that your body does each day. Our eyes, for example, flush out bad guys as necessary. What other amazing things does your body do? The body is one of the most amazing and well designed "machines" ever created.

What we do.

2011-05-24T22:54:00.002-04:00

Tip 2: Create a list of things your body lets you do. Read it and add to it often.

Sometimes we need to reminded of what we have and how blessed we are. The picture below is of a woman celebrating her body love. It's so inspiring. Our body does a lot of things, it's amazing. Sometimes we take somethings for granted. We all have body issues but I want to help people learn to love their bodies. It's possible to have some body love. Sometimes we don't see eye to eye with out bodies but I think this list is a tool to remind us how awesome our bodies are so, I will post a list here.

My legs allow to walk to class and around the mall and my house. They take me places.
My fingers allow me to type this message,
My eyes allow me to see it.
My ears allow me to listen to my favorite song
My tummy let's me eat yummy food
I can dance to my favorite songs
I can smile and then I can share that smile with others.
My arms help me move things and give hugs!
I can wiggle my toes
I can do spirit fingers
I have a brain that has brought me all the way to my sophomore year of college.
My legs let me dance to all my Wii dance games and they let me play Wii fit.

Our list grows day by day. So if you're trying to go on a journey to love your body, this list is a great way to start. What things do you think are beautiful? What do you like? What don't you like? All things to consider.